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FRIENDSHIP!

Hello Reader :) 
It’s my second post on my blog. And I am so thankful to you that you are on my page and I am sure you will have a takeaway message that makes a difference to you.

The post is all about ‘FRIENDSHIP’

I am sure that friends are always there on our priority list. Friends play an important role in our life.

A question to ponder, in what stage of life the word ‘friendship’ actually becomes meaningful?

When we are toddlers we are observers. When we are pre-schoolers we are explorers. When we are in primary year’s program we are socializing. When we are in middle school we are finding our acquaintances. When we are in high school we are looking for acceptance from peer circles. When we are in higher secondary school we are trying to identify ourselves with a peer group who has similar views and perceptions and it goes till our adulthood. When we become adults we have our own set of IDEAS and still trying to find a person with similar IDEAS. 

We are actually looking for someone who understands and accepts without judgment. It's hard to find a person who is non-judgmental and that’s what I believe in. I am sure that you agree too. But it’s not difficult to find a person who makes you feel comfortable in their company.

I would say that ‘A true friend is someone who is phenomenal and adds profound meaning to our life’.

To relate to my personal life, I realized the value of a true friend only in my undergraduate level. Then, for me, it was not an easy task to get a loan for my higher studies.  It was my friend ‘A’ who, uplifted my confidence and made it all easy. When I was cheated on and lost hope in my career life it was my friend ‘B’, who stood by me and helped me to cope with my hard times and it improvised my self-esteem. We strongly stood by each other during all our ups and downs of our lives. Wow! it's amazing to know that it’s been now more than fourteen years of our bond of friendship.
We do not rather, we should not stop making friends when we are comfortable with one or two peers. It is for a simple reason that is to add more colours to life. Expanding the peer circle is a skill and it magnifies the horizon of our learning. Apart from my other friends, I met another two beautiful souls who have accepted me the way I am and we have been making many colourful moments to cherish for the days to come.

As said that Resilience is vital in any kind of relationship and so in a true friendship. 

To conclude, Integrity, Respect and Compassion are the essential qualities that make friendship to last longer.

Thank you so much for reading until the end. Please do subscribe to my page and your comments are precious to me to improve my skills.  

Sangeetha :)

 Edited by Arpana Simha

P.S. “let’s learn from each other and grow together”.

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