Have
you ever smiled looking at a plant? Have you ever smiled seeing a flower? Have
you ever smiled at the silly acts of a child? Have you ever smiled looking at
your pet play? If you have done then you are experiencing the inner peace of
your life. You have the ability to balance your thought process and task.
Yes!
Life is full of opportunities for those who want to live it and those who
complain, life is hard and has that grumpy face finding faults mostly in
others. Being surrounded by people who gossip and keep talking negatively
about others is like being surrounded by polluted air. When we talk negatively
we become judgemental. We never know when that poisonous air is going to harm
our health and make us fall sick. Ignoring the mere fact of falling sick if we
do not protect ourselves when we walk in the polluted environment will have
serious health problems. Some become aware and understand to protect and
respect the body while many ignore fatal health.
That's
how we are when we know that we are gossiping and getting negatively influenced
and vice versa. It is instant gratification when in the clique to talk about
others' inappropriate stuff. It is an irresistible tendency to talk bad about
others when we don't have a good opinion about the person or not on good terms.
I would say that it is absolutely okay to gratify oneself by venting out the
frustration, payback thoughts and other negative feelings with someone who only
listens and DO NOT encourage the same.
When we
talk out our feelings it will clear certain things that are in the air. It also
guides us accordingly and makes us take a logical decision. Settling down the
problem, clearing of thoughts in the air, talking out to the concerned person
and seeking help are a few ways of balancing our problems.
This is
how we need to keep ourselves happy. We need to drop the garbage in the place
where we get it. Carrying all over and talking about it is useless and leads to
unhappiness. Find solutions to the challenge that you face rather than blaming
anyone for that matter. As I said it’s useless. It’s just a pain and strain.
Happiness
is within and we are accountable for the same. Surround yourself with people of positive minds and who respect you for what you are.
Sangeetha :)
https://itsmythoughtstrain.blogspot.com/
Well-said!
ReplyDeleteA very good way of keeping yourself fit and healthy. Thank you Sangeetha for sharing:)
Thank you for your encouraging words Miss:)
DeleteVery truthful lines and iam following
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for the valuable comment.
DeleteGood writing sang. All the very best for your next post:)
ReplyDeleteThank you Darshu:)
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